One of the things I am finding important is coming up with a safety plan. It it is a good thing to have, and discuss with your spouse. I was recently given a blank safety plan to fill in/tweek with what will fit us. Once complete, it will be printed out, and put up in certain areas of the house to remember what is to happen if we get to that point where we have to draw the line. Below is the blank safety plan that I was given, and was told I could share. Please feel free to save it, and create your own. For us at the end I will add at the end what will happen if none of the items listen help, which likely means inpatient is the result.